Death is not just a debt we owe; it is an inexorable force that has taken many beloved individuals from our lives, including our parents, friends, uncles, and colleagues. One such loss painful death is that of Uncle Banji Olawoyin the Bobajiroro of Offa . His passing came as a devastating shock, leaving me grappling with the memories of our time together and the conversations we shared.
For weeks, I have reflected on our relationship. Beyond the bond of brotherhood, we shared a connection built on trust, loyalty, and unconditional love. Uncle Banji was a remarkable man, embodying humility and kindness, especially toward the younger generation. Throughout our interactions, he never once looked down on me or treated me with anything less than respect. He was a true family man, always placing the Olawoyin family name in high regard and nurturing its legacy.
I can still vividly recall our last conversation, which remains etched in my memory. After a brief period without communication, he reached out to me on July 10th, 2025. During that call, he shared that he was experiencing a brief illness. As brothers, we confided in each other, discussing our fears and exploring potential solutions. Little did I know that this conversation would mark a heartbreaking farewell.
Less than 24 hours later, on Friday, July 11th, at exactly 1:40 PM, I received a text from a colleague informing me that Uncle Banji had passed away. In that moment, I felt as though the ground had been pulled from beneath me; I was left speechless and immobile. Yet, in the face of this tragedy, we must accept the will of God and find solace in our faith.
Today marks the beginning of his burial arrangements, and I stand with the rest of the Olawoyin family from Offa in deep prayer for his soul. We pray for his peaceful return to Almighty God. Uncle Banji, may you continue to rest in the everlasting bloom of the Lord. Your legacy will forever live on in our hearts.
